Pussy Power!
Yes – every sexual interaction we have with another, especially penetration, can and does affect us depending on where were we are as sexually empowered women.
If it is unwelcomed, uninvited, not truly desired then the vaginal area can constrict and the cells restrict their life flow, and over time, unless conscious work is done to reverse that cellular memory, then that constriction could result in resistance and non enjoyment of the sexual act.
It is possible to reverse that cellular restriction with self-practices such as visualization, conscious masturbation, use of tools such as jade eggs, or sessions with a sexological bodyworker.
However, in order to stop the continuation of negative cellular impact in future sexual encounters it is also important to work on personal empowerment, especially sexual empowerment. A shift of focus is sometimes all that may be required. That YOU are the Goddess, the initiator, that you are partaking in the sexual interaction for YOUR sexual pleasure… that it is all about YOU. You are not doing it because you “have” to, or because it is your duty, or that you feel an obligation to allow someone to penetrate you. You do it for you… for your own sexual stimulation, healing and enjoyment.
I have been involved with women’s sexual empowerment, and my own sexual empowerment for 30 years. I think that is why I feel positively empowered from my sexual interactions with people rather than detrimentally affected on a cellular level. Rather, I see each interaction as an opportunity to increase my energy, satisfy my sexual desires and give the person I am with a positive sexual experience that will hopefully elevate their life. It may require some gentle coaching but mostly it is a shift in my own awareness and energy that enables that positive outcome. Each interaction may not necessarily be mind-blowing, orgasmic bliss, but at least it is an opportunity to explore our own pleasure zones, desires and can always be seen as a learning experience.
So I encourage all you gorgeous, empowered sex Goddesses out there to view each and every sexual interaction as for YOUR benefit first and foremost, and then as an act of service for humanity. To help increase the positive sexual energy in this world. Our way to bring more sexual pleasure into this crazy world we live in!!! It is all up to us! We have the sexual power! Let’s embody it and use it for our own good and the betterment of humanity!
Dr. Shelley
Author of “Anti-Aging & Health Benefits of Sex.”
www.DrShelleys.com