Last week was a powerful week… a massive energy portal 8.8.8 (08/08/2024 – add the 2024 together and you get an 8!) And stuff came up! Plus, healing, and introspection came down too! The ups and downs of life! “Cloud watching, watching the clouds, knowing that these too will pass” (words from a song I wrote many moons ago while trekking in the Himilayas).
I was reminded last week as to why my way of doing things is so different and outside the box! Often when something major happens in a relationship we go into blame and shout and rant about what we don’t like about the other person, what they do wrong, what pisses us off about the other person… When dealing with a couple who had a major situation happen last week I noticed that old rhetoric slipping in and realized that is not my forte. Dealing with what is wrong is not my modus operati!
My approach I realize, is quite different from other therapies, practices… Mine is based on experience, many, many years of doing and saying what I preach. Yes, I am still learning – aren’t we all! I learn something every day because I am open to witnessing my reactions and how I feel, in my body, my emotions, my energy fields… If something happens to unsettle me I first go within to see what is being triggered, where does it sit in my body, how does it make me feel, does it bring up any images, of a previous incident, perhaps early in life or in another relationship, that makes me feel the same way… then I sit with it, breathe, put a hand on my heart and allow myself to feel and watch… Imagine if we all did that when something rattles us, shakes us up a bit – it could be a health issue, a scary diagnosis from the Medical system, a mention of the “C” word that can propel you into fear and worry. It could be a sudden loss of job that leaves you wondering how you can pay your bills. It could be a relationship blowup that makes you question why you are in that relationship in the first place – but perhaps there is a higher purpose, a reason for why you are with who you are with, have the health issue, or have lost your income source…
I have always had a very positive attitude towards my life. And even when things went “wrong” or “shit happened” I always responded, within myself, with “well there must be a reason for this” – this is obviously a wake-up call for me. What is needed in this situation, what is the lesson learned? Owning one’s own capabilities and realizing there are other ways to earn income, independently; looking at a pattern that keeps coming up, owning it, and making a conscious change within to your response – be it food (not succumbing to emotionally driven eating, and choosing soemthing healthier), giving up smoking (choosing a healthier option instead like going for a walk rather than smoking a cigarette and consciously breathing in the fresh air into your lungs), maybe it’s a wake-up call to acknowledge your own incredible abilities and start your own business, as scary as that may be!
My approach to life, and my profession, is to look at what works, give thanks for all the things and people that surround you, then look at how you can make your wonderful existence and relationships EVER BETTER!
It takes some discipline to go within and see what is happening inside your body, your mind and your emotions… and then to be able to expand out from the physical to your energy body and connections. But it is possible! And something we don’t have to pay big bucks for! It is already within us! Free! Just need to turn that tap on!
The body is a fascinating thing! Each cell has a cellular memory… I remember when I first really started tuning in to my body when I was 17 and started meditating. I had such a blast going into every cell of my body and tapping into each cellular experience it had! Hours and hours of contemplating my navel, so to speak! Once we realize we can tap into our own cellular structure then we become less reliant on outside sources like the medical profession and other experts, and can simply tune in to our own very wise, all knowing self. We know ourselves the best, really!
As well as being an incredible self-healing technique for body issues, it also works with the emotions, and the mind too. And when you get through those three (Body, Emotions, Mind) – which is a LOT – then you and your vessel (your body/mind/soul) can start expanding and using that conscious awareness to help balance and harmonize your loved ones, your communities, and this world we live in! Imagine a world where we each took responsibility for ourselves, our reactions, our bodies, our thoughts and deeds?
That’s the world I choose to live in and help others to realize. That is my purpose here on this earth – to make the world more sexually joyful – in fact more joyful in ALL aspects of life. It’s just that the sexual energy is such a powerful energy and if we could all tap into it, that would propel us forward in our health, mental state, and life itself.
I love my life. Am healthy, happy and sexually satisfied. Each day I learn something more about myself because I take the time to go within and reflect and give thanks for each experience and person who has come into it. I know everything happens for a reason and I am willing to look at my reactions (physically, emotionally and energetically) and see how I can make my life experience EVEN BETTER! Try it!
