Just do you!


“Just Do You!” An amazing inspirational song by India Arie that I love to listen to at the moment (Click on the “Just do you!” link to see the official video)

You are essential!

She sings we are ALL essential – not just a few of us, but ALL of us! Yes! YOU ARE ESSENTIAL!

She says, it is our fears that limit our potential. She tells us to “Step into the light” and use every bit of power we have inside. That is what we need right now! Positive, empowering songs. Thank you India Arie!

Climb those mountains!

The words of her song “Just do you” give inspiration to us all. “Every mountain needs someone to climb it” – there are so many personal, daily mountains to climb – physical/health mountains, emotional/relationship mountains, mental/political mountains, spiritual/energetic mountains to climb. Do it! Climb those mountains! Treat those mountains as challenges…

Dive in!

“Every ocean needs someone to dive in,” all over the world, no matter who you are, or what color of your skin, or your beliefs. Oceans symbolize emotions/feelings… dive in to them. Feel them. Immerse yourself…

Dream it!

“Every dream needs someone to wish it” – the power of positive thought and manifestation of your dreams. We can do it!

Be adventurous!


“Every adventure needs someone to live it” – every moment, every day can be an adventure. Live each day as an adventure.

“If you create the game then you create the rules!” – So, let’s try this! If you see your life as a game, how would that game look? Where would it be played, and with whom? And what are the rules? Sometimes life truly feels like a movie, a reality TV show, a game… it’s your game – you create the rules! How empowering!

Write your story!

“There’s a story waiting for you to write it” – everyone has a unique and incredible story to tell. You are your own story. Reflect on who you are, the experiences you’ve had, the mountains you’ve climbed and water you have dived into… the physical, the emotional, the mental and the spiritual story of your life. Write it! Please!

Find your treasure!


“There’s a treasure waiting for you to find it” – every moment, every day… I see the treasure before me… it may start with picking up a penny then flow into a desire/thought that I then go with, which leads me to the next treasure…

Paint your reality!


“There’s a picture waiting for you to paint it” – over the years I have used this metaphor in my workshops. I associate it with a 6th chakra/opening/activity… the ability to manifest our reality, our lives from this moment forward, to visualize it, paint it. Be specific… do you want tall trees? Grass? What people do you want in your picture? What type of car? Job? Fun toys? What colors do you pick? Red relates to physical, orange to sex/creativity, yellow to power, green to heart connections, blue to self expression, purple to insights/lessons, and white light (that which encompasses all, relates to our spiritual connection, energy body).

Make money!


“There’s a dollar waiting for you to make it” – same process, visualize then materialize! Make it happen! Merge the upper chakras with the lower chakras, visualize then make it happen! Action your thoughts/insights.

Stay positive, especially during these crazy times. Use your time to create your own reality, to visualize it, make it happen. The mind is a powerful thing. Use it! Energy follows awareness so focus your energy on what you desire, and see it manifest!

Live your dreams!

Dr Shelley

PS. As a sexologist I would be remiss to mention the other innuendo this phrase “Just do you” brings up! Yes! Please! Just do you! Take time to pleasure yourself! I encourage you to listen to this song while you do so… (and watch the video when you have a moment… powerful imagery of rewinding) Return to Innocence, by Enigma (and oldie but a goodie! Click on the Name/Link to take you to the video).

Living my dreams